The problem with a lot of women is that while they generally find men, they tend to only find men who are into it for the short term. They like to have fun and get to know a lot of women, but they don’t like commitment. If you think it’s time to find a man who is also long-term minded like you, then you are reading the right article. You are about to learn how to attract men who are marriage material. These are some of the tips I gave to some of my friends who contacted me about having the same problem as you.
1. Don’t “look”
Lots of women are trying to work backwards to find men who are marriage material. What I mean is that they think about what they would like in a married man, i.e. a house, a steady income, etc.
Don’t do this, ladies. You will come out with the wrong mindset and never find a man who will consider you marriage material. You have to learn that looking for something makes it harder for you to find it in the long run.
2. Don’t be intimidated
There are plenty of women who find men and simply ask men if they are interested in starting a family or getting married. It’s a big deal for guys and as hard as you look, they might not be.
The best way to approach the topic is to ask guys how they were raised, how many siblings they have, etc. This will show you how many family members they would have started with. If they grew up in a good family, there is a good chance that they are family men.
3. Do you want a family?
Women who want a married man tend to think in the long term, i.e. having children and starting a family. It’s a scary prospect for a lot of guys, but we’ll be drawn to women who seem capable.
For example, if you work in a child care home or with children a lot in general, this is a good way for us to see how good you are with children. Prove it, don’t say it. What are some other things that will prove that you will be a good wife or mother in the future?
If you want to learn how to attract men who are marriage material, you have to prove that you’re ready for marriage, too. Do not look, because you will not find him, and do not obscure men by pissing them off with a marriage proposal on the first date.